Sometime we want people to go along with our ideas for them. There are times when people tell us what is desirable for us. Then we also see ourselves getting into more trouble by comparing ourselves to others, or trying to be more or better than someone else. If your looking for happines, these are traps that are best to stay away from. Let them be who they are – you don’t need to change them to strengthen your identity. You are special just the way you are. So go ahead and create in this wonderful world from your true self.